The transition from nursery to ‘big school’ can be both exciting and scary for children. When they start their new school they will need to learn their way around, meet new teachers and make new friends. They will also need to alter their routine and become more independent. These changes can make young children feel very anxious; however there are lots of ways that parents can support their children through this transition.
To help you prepare for this next milestone in your child’s education, here are some helpful tips from an independent nursery in Richmond…
Visit their new school
One of the best ways to help your child adjust to their new school is taking them to visit it as early as possible. This will help with the fear of the unknown and allow them to explore their new surroundings. Go along to open days and events at the school so they can meet the teachers and experience school life. It can also be really helpful to arrange a ‘settling in session’ where you can accompany your child on their first day.
Give them reassurance
It is normal for your child to feel anxious about starting their new school. Reassure your child that lots of their classmates will be feeling the same, and tell them they can help those children by asking them to play. Talk about all of the positives of school and talk to your child about the exciting things they can look forward to. Remember to emphasize how grown up they are – this will help to boost their confidence.
Encourage sharing
If you have an only child or they haven’t been to nursery, they may struggle when it comes to sharing items with other children at school. To help them learn these important social skills you could practice at home by playing games and taking turns. Be sure to highlight the importance of turn-taking, by saying things like ‘Whose turn is it now?’ and ‘Thank you for sharing’.
Help them prepare
Finally, prepare your child for big school by teaching them how to be independent. This means showing them how to do certain tasks by themselves, such as dressing, going to the toilet and washing their hands. You will also need to encourage your child to ask for help when they need it. The more you help to develop their independence before they start school, the easier it will be for them to settle in and have fun.